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Violence Against Men

Violence breeds more violence, and silence about it perpetuates it. If the experience is not processed through conversation, violence may find a new target. It may be directed at ourselves or others. By remaining silent, we sustain this cycle. We can stop it by speaking to a friend or a professional helper.

Violence can affect anyone, and seeking help is an important step toward recovery. Victim Support Finland provides support and practical advice throughout the legal process, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

If you experience violence, speak up, seek help, file a police report. Staying silent doesn’t make anyone better.

As a Man Targeted by Violence

Violence manifests in many ways and has various effects. Men can be subject to both physical and psychological violence. According to a survey conducted by Miessakit ry titled “Normal Violence – Men as Victims of Street Violence” (2021), violence can cause psychological and physical suffering for the victim. Almost half of the respondents reported depression, anxiety, and a decrease in self-esteem as a result of the violence.

Research from Statistics Finland, titled “Gendered Violence and Intimate Partner Violence in Finland 2021”, shows that experiencing violence is common in Finland: 46 percent of men have experienced some form of physical violence, threats, or sexual violence in their lives. Eighteen percent have experienced similar violence from a current or former partner. The violence men experience is often one-off incidents, typically physical violence from a stranger or acquaintance outside of an intimate relationship. Men’s experiences with intimate partner violence are more often psychological than physical. Psychological violence also has consequences for the victim, and seeking help for this is recommended.

Seeking Help and Knowing Your Rights

Identify Possible Witnesses

If possible, identify eyewitnesses and others who may have observed the incident, especially if the police have not been called or have not yet arrived.

Seek Medical Attention

Go to a doctor, even if injuries don’t require medical treatment. It is important for a doctor to document even minor bruises and contusions. If it involves sexual violence, visit a SERI Support Center, available in different parts of Finland. Avoid washing or changing clothes before going to the doctor. Inform the doctor who caused the injuries and when. Also discuss your mental state. A medical report is an important piece of evidence if you decide to file a police report.

File a Police Report as Soon as Possible

Filing a police report is an important step, as it helps the police investigate the crime and ensures your legal protection.

For serious crimes against life and health, it’s recommended to file a report at the nearest police station to ensure a quicker response. You can also file a police report online.

In some cases, the police can come to interview the crime victim at a hospital, if they are there as a patient.

You can file a police report even if there are no witnesses.

Preserve Evidence

All evidence related to the events, such as messages, photos, and receipts, can be important in court. Save all documents related to the case.

Apply for a Restraining Order if Necessary

If you feel threatened, you can apply for a restraining order. This can prevent the perpetrator from contacting you in any way. Our restraining order page provides details on how to apply and what it entails.

Don’t Be Alone

Becoming a victim of crime brings a range of emotions and thoughts. It’s normal to react to these experiences. Talk to your loved ones about the incident, its emotional impact, and other consequences. You can seek support services that offer help with both legal issues and emotional resilience.

Support is Available from Victim Support Finland, Miessakit, and Nollalinja

Victim Support Finland (RIKU) offers free and confidential support to all crime victims and their loved ones, including men:

All services are free, and you can also reach out anonymously. We can provide further information on police reports, hearings, restraining orders, compensation issues, and other matters related to the legal process.

Miessakit offers support services specifically aimed at men to help them process experiences of violence.

Nollalinja assists anyone who has experienced intimate partner violence or its threat. Nollalinja is available 24/7 at phone number 080 005 005. You can also speak with a violence prevention professional in Nollalinja’s chat service.

Experiencing violence can be burdensome, and recovery may take time. Talking to a trusted friend or a professional can be a step forward.

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